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Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 38 (KevM3)


Whenever you show weakness and plead to a woman, it’s messed up from there on out. The only real solution right now is to keep it pushing, because the longer you stick around, you’ll eventually realize that things keep progressively getting worse, with her getting more and more distant. ******** Once you start crying and showing her weakness, her whole ... Read More »

The Truth About Loving Unhappy People (@TinyySmalls)


I recently read through hundreds of posts on one of my favorite blogs. I found countless pieces on how to help, how to love, how to be happy. I couldn’t find one piece written for people who’ve spent years trying to be happy for someone else. At an early age my parents taught me that misery loves company. As an ... Read More »

How To Keep Your Sanity In A Long Distance Relationship (By @DarthVenn)


I refuse to believe in the idea that long distance can’t work. I also refuse to believe that out of the billion people in this world, or soulmate has to live in a 5 mile radius. Just here to give some healthy long distance relationship tips, because your relationship is just as important as any other relationship. Especially since it’s based ... Read More »

How To Deal With Her Mental illness (@DarthVenn)


Dating someone with a mental illness can be such a struggle sometimes. Confusing, unsure, sad, a bit scary, and alarming. But, don’t you dare for a second think it can’t be beautiful. People with mental illness are the same as anyone else. Deep down I think everyone has one, just not as intense as others.  You love her, you need ... Read More »

How To Finesse Twitter (By @NorthKai_)


The internet is based on content.  Every tweet you send out is a form of content.  Pictures & videos being shared are another type of content.  Articles, reviews and text in general are the most recognizable forms of content. Once you have lots of people engaging with your content then you can start the process to generating income.  No matter ... Read More »

Time Management Advice from Multi-Million Dollar Producers (@pgoodiezz)


“The only time I waste is time I spend doing something that, in my gut, I know I shouldn’t.” – Simon Sinek We often talk about the value of time and rarely the importance of a schedule.  Time, as with any gift or talent is quickly wasted without proper management. Here are some tips provided by top producers on how ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 37 (By KevM3)


A lot of dudes wouldn’t mind helping women out if not for the attitudes of a lot of these women who actually look down on a dude helping them, and instead of appreciating it, she feels as if she’s some seductress or hustler who finessed her way into something. It’s pretty sad the lack of gratitude that can be exhibited ... Read More »

Only Real Sh!t Gonna Last (@AujaBomaye)


What up fam. Are you all tired of my Drake references yet?? Don’t answer that, I don’t give a damn. And this aint that anyway so you can relax*. I finally listened to that Dom tape and I’ve got a word on my heart that I need to share. As an avid (read: obsessive) hip-hop fan, I’m constantly monitoring its ... Read More »

Broke My iPhone, Fixed My Life (@NateSaid)


It’s been a quiet, slow last three days for me without my iPhone. Even though three days isn’t a lot, during these three days I came up with a lot to talk about. Actually fuck that. I always have a lot to talk about. With that being said it’s weird that as a writer, I don’t put articles out at ... Read More »

Unconditional (By @TinyySmalls)


We’re told the things we can’t forget about are the things most meant to be in our minds. We’re also told that the difficulty behind letting go of something stems from how much we love it. Neither are true. Falling in love with someone because they provide a contact high is like falling in love with a film. You can ... Read More »

Fallen Heroes: Jared Fogel (By @ZEUSofQLF)


* Walks into the Court of Public Opinion * I want to start off by telling you, most of our heroes are frauds. From the allegations against Bill Cosby to the truth about Hulk Hogan’s feelings about black people, as of late, our heroes seem to be crashing down from their pedestals at lightening speed. I am no way condoning ... Read More »

Anxiety (By @TinyySmalls)


Sometimes everything sucks. It just does. You’re exhausted. You’re stressed. You’re down on yourself and you’re down on everyone else. Nothing you’ve done has made you feel proud or excited or enthusiastic. Your greatest accomplishment has been transferring that pile of laundry on your couch to the chair next to it. Everything you write sucks. Your face looks weird today. ... Read More »

The Good, The Bad, and The Netflix & Chill (By @ToiMeetsWorld)


I’ve seen so many different perspectives on this text exchange.  Some side with the man, stating that his ability to want to get to know her before intentions to pursue was a mature approach.  Personally, in my opinion this text exchange epitomizes the deterioration of courtship.  My grandma keeps the book Etiquette in her house by Amy Vanderbilt, and I remember reading ... Read More »

The Art Of The Broken Heart (By @JusGQ)


It’s ya boy Lex, aka Mac Miller face, bka the great white (half Puerto Rican) hope. Mr. Green Eyes w/ the Black Soul and the Pale Flesh, in the flesh. That’s how I’m supposed to start my blog off, right? On some Ghostface type shit? Make me seem important, ya dig. Iight, fuck that.  Topic is: The Art of The ... Read More »

The Things No One Tells You (By @tinyysmalls)


A person once told me that I would lose myself in love. By that i’m sure she meant I was obsessing. I was losing the bits and pieces of myself that she was once familiar with. And it isn’t an uncommon thing to say. It’s a concern from a loved one. A warning from someone who cares about whether or ... Read More »

It’s not You, It’s Them (By @CrisLex)


I’m going to skip the intro to my new blog and just jump right into it. IT’S NOT YOU. It most likely isn’t ever you. At times it maybe going to be the other person when things may not work out. Believe this. And that’s okay.  We have all heard the cliché line “it’s not you, it’s me”. Bullshit. It’s ... Read More »

Home-buyer’s Checklist (By @pgoodiezz)


I’ve been in mortgage banking for more than twelve years. My business grew the old fashioned way; lunch dates, eye contact and conversation. I don’t want to be a blogger, I want to have real conversations and be a resource for practical information. In my profession, trust matters. Sitting down with a mortgage professional means sharing your spending habits, revisiting ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 36 (By KevM3)


You treat a dog well, you got a loyal bud for life. With women, you treat them too well and you upgrade a woman to a certain point, then she starts feeling she’s too fly for you and takes off. Women only want to stick around a man they feel is beyond them, so upgrading a girl too much brings ... Read More »

Reciprocation: Give & Take (By @PaulTheEsquire)


re·cip·ro·ca·tion \ri-ˌsi-prə-ˈkā-shən\noun 1 a  :a mutual exchange b  :a return in kind or of like value 2 :an alternating motion  How much of yourself are you willing to give? How much of someone else or something are you capable of accepting? Are you liable to give more of yourself and accept less of other things? Or vice versa? In life there are ... Read More »

Hip Hop Isn’t Healthy For You (By @ZeusofQLF)


* stands in front of TelePrompter, adjusts DRI-FIT  tie, takes a breath and, in best Kanye voice,  tells the world: “HIP HOP DOESN’T CARE ABOUT HEALTHY PEOPLE ” * They called him Big Meech, Larry Hoover…but then Rick Ross lost 100 pounds and Twitter came to drag his (now significantly lighter) ass. Interestingly, the majority of those hateful comments came from ... Read More »

The Differences Pt 2 …. Serena Williams & Ronda Rousey (By @LamondreDeshawn)


Something has been bothering me for the past couple of months! How can the public view of these 2 similar but different female athletes be so skewed? These two legends are both great at what they do and will most likely be the bar that future female athletes measure themselves to when they are competing. Both athletes are also very ... Read More »

An Open Letter To The Broken, The Depressed and The Anxious (By @DarthVenn)


Anxiety is like falling into a deep well filled with cold water.The water puts you into a shock, and you’re trying not to drown just clawing. Clawing at the walls and gasping for air and trying to swim. Your feet are tired of kicking & your muscles hurt & you want to stop swimming. But if you stop swimming your ... Read More »

Don’t F*ck This Up: A Girl’s Guide to Keeping It Cool W/ The Guy You Like. (By @CrisLex)


So you met a guy and things are going soo damn good. Good Morning texts, Facetime-ing, flirtatious tweets, hangouts/dates and unexpected sweet phone calls. You are glowing. You feel good. And this guy, this guy…he just makes you feel like you are Aphrodite on a Spring day. But hold up, wait a minute, those familiar feelings of uncertainty start to ... Read More »

He Cheated…and You Need To Realize A Few Things (By @DarthVenn)


Being cheated on is a touchy subject…and I love touchy subjects. So touchy we shall go. I just want to discuss some things you should, realize, consider, and think about whether you take him back or you leave for good. I want to make something clear, if it was a breach of trust on your relationship it counts as cheating. ... Read More »

Don’t Become a Revolving Door (By @DerrickMills92)

revolving door

This post ties into the ISM. When broads begin kicking it with you and feeling your vibe they’ll become entranced by the ISM and won’t want to leave (which is a good thing). However, some broads are lame or simply not ready. Sometimes people have to go through some shit to get their minds, bodies, and souls right. I call this ... Read More »

So, They Left You….Now What? (By @DarthVenn)


So they left you, you feel like dying, you feel like you’ll never get over it, and the pain will never end. You wanna get over it, you want the sunshine inside you again. Well, I’m here to give you some steps to try. I’m here to be your dumped guru. I’m here to show there’s sunshine on the other ... Read More »

Plan B? (By @OohCrissy)


I have no interest in returning to school, I’m technically a college drop out.. But I’ve realized traditional schooling isn’t for me. I know me well enough to know this and to continue to acquire debt for a piece of paper, I don’t really care to acquire is pointless… What about the knowledge Cristina ? The credentials ? I don’t ... Read More »

Clean mind, clean body……Sh!t Real (By @OohCrissy)

mind and body

Your body is directly correlated to your mind, the body is the servant to the mind. If you want to be honest with what shape your mind is in, look at your body, examine your health.. How do you feel in your body? Are you comfortable? Disgusted? Proud? Ashamed? Think of your mindstate. I completely let myself go in college, ... Read More »

Am I a Hoe? (By @AujaBomaye)


I think every day for a week straight I’ve seen a hoe conversation on the Twitter Machine. Every single day. Relationship expectations and “talking” and “fucking” and “dating” and “I mean they cool or whatever”-ing. All week long I say. And it reminded me of this research I been doing so I happened to ask someone about the rules and ... Read More »

How to “Netflix and Chill” with Success (By @Smitty1423)


Cuffin Season is right around the corner so here are a few tips to properly “Netflix and Chill. 1. Setting the Stage I wouldn’t advise “Netflix and Chillin” the first date due to the fact it is a very personal experience. If it’s successful for you by all means do it. This type of event is most effective the second ... Read More »

“See The Problem is……” (By @BoxdenFresco)


See the problem is you’re willing to risk your life to make a left hand turn. What is wrong with you bruh?? That just tells me you don’t manage risk well. You can’t just do shit without calculating the risks. Left hand turns are risky bruh. Unprotected nights of passion are risky bruh. But sometimes it’s worth it. You might ... Read More »

Summer of Souls: The Humbling (By @DJFolk)


Yeah this is the chilling truth about when your soul turns ghoulish and you gotta get your mojo back beloved. Nerd might post this shit..might be too real and deep for most but it will touch someone dog….  Yeah i went thru it my nigga. Partnership on my shoe store dissolved. Money got tight. When things started to get dark, ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 35 (By Kevm3)


A lot of women live up to the standard that the men uphold. A lot of men complain about a lack fo quality women, and yet when they praise women, the only kind of woman that shows up is some stripper in a thong or some such similar breed of woman. When women see this is the kind of woman ... Read More »

Twitter Is A Place (By @InTheFade)


*Via Medium.Com/@inTheFade* I’ve been looking at the number every day for a while, keeping track of its rise, watching carefully as it slow crawls — or some days jogs — toward 100,000. Right now I have 98, 365 tweets under my belt. That’s spread out over eight years. That’s 12,000 tweets a year. About 1,000 a month. Approximately 34 tweets a day. And if ... Read More »

A Glimpse Of Death (By @BlackDannyOcean)


Tuesday July 21st, 2015. Approximately 11:20 PM.  It’s a beautiful night in Downtown Atlanta, GA. I had just left my Editor-in-Chief’s house after crafting a few posts for this very site and fantasizing about the upcoming OVO Fest, which my staff and I planned to attend. After a session of laughs, good music and hard work, I shook hands with ... Read More »

Gotta Hear Both Sides (By @AujaBomaye)


Like that annoying Jehovah’s Witness who KNOWS you’re home and keeps knocking til you answer, rather rudely, I might add, I’m back with another testimony. Twitter has been talkin about this Drake/Meek situation for bout 56 nights straight jack!! It’s really the most interesting thing to happen in hip-hop since… well it’s been a while since something THIS interesting has ... Read More »

The Differences Pt. 1 (By @lamondredeshawn)


We live in an era where differences of opinions aren’t really a difference of opinion anymore. By that, I mean nobody likes to agree to disagree. Prime example, if we are talking about basketball, the biggest argument is always about M.J. vs. LeBron.  Although these two have never physically played against each other, basketball fans like me still argue who ... Read More »

10 Movies You Need To See If You Were Born After 1989 (By @SHREMPwithaE)


Movies to a certain extent shape how we feel and react to certain events. Sometimes a movie can be so great/important it can move an entire culture of people for decades. Movies come and go constantly, but something has to be said for a movie that is just as great 15 or 20 years after it was released. Before you ... Read More »

Great Sex, Crazy Motherf*cker (By @BlackDannyocean)


We human beings are creatures who are much more savage than we like to acknowledge. Think about the simple things that are monuments to our primal behavior. How we become irritable when we’re hungry. How we behave irrationally when extremely aroused. The cravings that occur which we must fulfill – a sweet tooth, thirst etc. Many of the things that ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 34 (By KevM3)


Never, ever abandon your friends once you get a woman. As soon as she ends up leaving, you’ll be stuck on your lonesome. ***** Time heals wounds. Right now, it’s tough to bear because something that you’ve been accustomed to has been removed from you. It’s like if you drink coffee every day for 10 years, and then all of ... Read More »

“She’s not coming back. Bro” (By @The_kp_Show)


“I wish I cared. I ain’t got 1 feeling. If they move on and someone makes em happy, coooool. You can’t be bitter, that’s selfish” -One of the greatest poets of our time, Future Hendrix, That should be the motto. For everyone. Not just men, but women, too. Thing is, if they don’t care, why should you? Ask yourself what ... Read More »

5 Things Missing From Music Streaming Services (By @ColdKnowledge)


So on my phone I have Pandora, Spotify, Tidal, Apple Music, Songza, Rhapsody, Google Music, Rdio, DatPiff and Spinrilla. More times than most I use all of them at some point during the month. One day I was sitting down and started wondering why do I go from one app to the other so constantly? Well that’s because all of ... Read More »

An Open Letter to Lil Wayne (By @SermonsDomain)


Dear Weezy, We have to talk. Do you have a minute? I know the studio is like a drug for you, but come sit down for a moment. Where do we start? Something has to change. And by something, I mean everything. You’re just now under the line of coastin’ through your career and music in 2015. This is Eminem ... Read More »

Women & Weed: High Diary Vll (By @AujaBomaye)


High diary, July 4th weekend was pretty fuckin lit actually but this was the last weekend I’m allowing myself any kind of fun until fall gets here. As much as it’s been raining lately I really won’t even need much of a reason to stay put. This was also the last weekend I’m saying “lit” I think. I really don’t ... Read More »

Truth Or Dare? (By @JlSolivan)


Truth or dare? If you chose truth, let me ask you “Are you living life to the fullest? Do you feel fulfilled?” If you were bad ass and chose dare, “I dare you to step out of your comfort zone and live life to the fullest, go someplace you’ve never been and do something you’ve never done”! I just got ... Read More »

How the craze for a Bigger Butt/small waist changed the health/fitness industry. (By @Zeusdagreat91)


* drinks protein shake and does a couple push-ups to get my chest up for this comment *                   ” squats do not make your butt bigger !” It’s all a fraud. From 30-day squat challenges, to countless posts about how squats will give you the perfect ‘apple bottom’ you’ve been searching ... Read More »

I’m Not A Feminist (By @turoxshakur)


*ducks and covers* Now, now, I know what you’re thinking, “How could she be a woman and not care about the equality of women? Does she not want the same respect that men get? Does she not want the same wage?” Calm down, of course I do. Just because I don’t want to be equal to a man (which I ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Men Pt. 1 (By @_sugatits)


Everyone thinks that (s)he is an expert on the opposite sex, even those that claim to know nothing at all. When I was asked to weigh in on this topic, I was iffy. The last thing I want is to come off as a misinformed airhead, spewing ridiculous advice about dealing with the male populous. I mean, I only know ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 33 (By Kevm3)


There are very few ‘gems’ left in modern society. Most women are doing their thing. Abandon God? Nah. The only thing you’re going to find with those two-timing type of women is just how scandalous women can be when they’re cheating on you and the such. It’s difficult for a man of faith to find a wife… any man for ... Read More »

A Caged Mind (By @lamondredeshawn)


Writers block is the worst thing you could possibly have – that isn’t an actual disease. You’re creative writing skills are in limbo and it’s basically purgatory for writers. You sit there thinking for hours, days and sometimes even weeks if it’s that bad. It’s like you have this itch to write about something, so you start writing down ideas ... Read More »

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