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Quick Little Gems Dealing With Independent Women (By @SerenaAlfaro & @TonyTuss)

There are two types of women in this world: gold diggers and goal diggers. We can all appreciate a woman who has her own, but there is a deeper darker side to dealing with one that’s I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T if you know what I mean. Here are a few gems for dealing with women who want, but don’t need you: Trustworthy: She ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 42 (By KevM3)

Never make the development of your manhood contingent on ‘what the ladies like’ because different ladies like different things and it’s a very weak metric to use what women like as the barometer to judge your life because their tastes can be so fickle and you are also giving up your autonomy as a man by basing your actions on ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Men ….. at HENNYPALOOZA (By @SerenaAlfaro)

If you were in Los Angeles at the end of March, you were at Hennypalooza. Since I was there and I wasn’t sure what to expect besides Henny and a palooza, I’ve gathered some advice. Here’s some tips for the ladies on attending Hennypalooza and how to deal with opposite sex when you get there.  You’re Getting Hit On Like ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 41 (By KevM3)

You realize as you get older that all of the investment you put into women can disappear in the blink of an eye. You put in all of that effort, you got her attention, then for whatever reason she gets bored and disappears. All of that work for nothing. Put your time into things that actually will give you a ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Single Moms (@TonyTuss)

*Disclaimer: I’m not glorifying being a single mother, I wouldn’t dare disrespect #TheWoke* Some men look at single moms as having baggage and others can look past the kid. I’ve been on both sides of the fence, sometimes a kid was a deal breaker and other times I pushed the stroller like Russell Wilson. Anyway here’s a few gems on ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Men Pt. 3 (By @AujaBomaye)

I was asked to finesse and speak my lil piece on the unstable creatures otherwise known as the male species… Lord have mercy, it took me an entire week to get my mind right so that this post would be more than me having written “Idk bruh, y’all are confusing” 1000 times. I get y’all but I don’t. You all ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Men Pt. 2 (By @Turoxshakur)

Stop pillow talking Ladies, men don’t give one damn about what your best friend’s man is doing wrong to her. Of course he’s listening, but the information that you’re giving him is unnecessary, and it’s making him dangerous. Men really do talk and gossip just as much as women do. Stop telling homeboy you met three weeks ago your business. ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 40 (By KevM3)

I find that a man should always be focused on something else other than women. Why? Because when you invest in other areas of your life, it actually brings a return on time spent. With a woman, she’s free to up and leave at any time and you never know when, and all of the gain from the effort you ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 39 (By KevM3)

Just about every man wants that super strong love and to be validated in that belief that your woman will hold you down forever. Reality? She can get bored and leave at any time. Therefore, you have to mentally have the expectation that she will leave at any time or do something in which you will have to go your ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 38 (KevM3)

Whenever you show weakness and plead to a woman, it’s messed up from there on out. The only real solution right now is to keep it pushing, because the longer you stick around, you’ll eventually realize that things keep progressively getting worse, with her getting more and more distant. ******** Once you start crying and showing her weakness, her whole ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 37 (By KevM3)

A lot of dudes wouldn’t mind helping women out if not for the attitudes of a lot of these women who actually look down on a dude helping them, and instead of appreciating it, she feels as if she’s some seductress or hustler who finessed her way into something. It’s pretty sad the lack of gratitude that can be exhibited ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 36 (By KevM3)

You treat a dog well, you got a loyal bud for life. With women, you treat them too well and you upgrade a woman to a certain point, then she starts feeling she’s too fly for you and takes off. Women only want to stick around a man they feel is beyond them, so upgrading a girl too much brings ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 35 (By Kevm3)

A lot of women live up to the standard that the men uphold. A lot of men complain about a lack fo quality women, and yet when they praise women, the only kind of woman that shows up is some stripper in a thong or some such similar breed of woman. When women see this is the kind of woman ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 34 (By KevM3)

Never, ever abandon your friends once you get a woman. As soon as she ends up leaving, you’ll be stuck on your lonesome. ***** Time heals wounds. Right now, it’s tough to bear because something that you’ve been accustomed to has been removed from you. It’s like if you drink coffee every day for 10 years, and then all of ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Men Pt. 1 (By @_sugatits)

Everyone thinks that (s)he is an expert on the opposite sex, even those that claim to know nothing at all. When I was asked to weigh in on this topic, I was iffy. The last thing I want is to come off as a misinformed airhead, spewing ridiculous advice about dealing with the male populous. I mean, I only know ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 33 (By Kevm3)

There are very few ‘gems’ left in modern society. Most women are doing their thing. Abandon God? Nah. The only thing you’re going to find with those two-timing type of women is just how scandalous women can be when they’re cheating on you and the such. It’s difficult for a man of faith to find a wife… any man for ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 32 (By KevM3)

When you like yourself and you are comfortable with yourself and you actually get out and about and you put yourself in different environments and you live life without the intent of ‘catching this or that woman’, you end up enjoying yourself a lot more and you get much higher quality of a woman. Why? Because you’re not putting on ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 31 (By KevM3)

If you perceive her as a decent woman, don’t waste time ‘hoing’ her out ***** We as men complain about not being able to find decent women, but then so many men end up hitting and quitting ’em and turning them into the kind of woman we despise. ***** One of the biggest problems we have in this day and ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 30 (By KevM3)

One of the keys to life is just focusing and finding joy in those things that are in your control and learning to do without those things that aren’t. I can choose what I study in my freetime. I can fill my day with activities I enjoy. I can choose the thoughts I allow in my head. The culmination of ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 29 (By KevM3)

I find life best lived when you focus on things IN your control and not out of your control. I don’t know the time or the date when the woman I’m supposed to spend the rest of my life with is going to show up. I can’t control what some particular woman I’m dealing with is doing. What I can ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 28 (By KevM3)

Find a way to enjoy your life regardless of whatever woman you are dealing with is doing. If she goes cold and disappears, oh well, she can be replaced… but never let a woman cause you a ton of stress or have you worrying about her. I used to sit around worrying about why this woman who supposedly loves me ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 27 (By KevM3)

God gave man the authority to be head of the household. It even tells you in the Bible no woman should have authority over a man…and yet in this modern day, how many men are comfortable deferring to a woman and letting a woman make all the choices? Is it no wonder they don’t respect men anymore? Authority is something ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 27 (By KevM3)

Men are constantly improving themselves, but on the other hand, women aren’t making that same effort because they’re never being held to any standard. When have you seen a recent conversation about a woman seriously improving herself because she wants to offer a better package to men? That she was learning to improve her cooking skills, be more submissive and ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt.26 (By KevM3)

We, as men, need to have integrity. We see how nasty this dating scene is, so we must do our best not to contribute to it. How can we complain about something if we are taking a direct part in causing it? Leave other mens’ women alone. We might sit back and think we are being players or get some ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 25 (By KevM3)

Man honestly, I don’t know why guys are spending all this time trying to figure out these little hints, signs, tips, strategies, techniques and tactics, as if this or that woman has some magnificent prize to offer you for all the effort. What does she have to offer really? That box that 20 to 30 other guys have already been ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 24 (By KevM3)

Rule number 1. You will never get anywhere with a woman by doing stuff for her or buying her stuff. Rule number 2. Reread rule number 1. ***** One of the most important rules a man needs to understand when dealing with women is that THEY DO NOT CARE WHAT YOU DO FOR THEM. They care how you make them ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 23 (By KevM3)

What’s crazy is that you never know who will and won’t like you. It’ll be that 5 that thinks you’re nothing special, but it’s that dime that thinks you’re fine. Even with that said, it’s not all about looks with women. Looks make things easier, but it’s all about your charisma and personality traits. You got to work on yourself ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 22 (By KevM3)

The biggest problem in this day and age is that people on both sides aren’t getting real information and they are ultimately dopamine addicts. People love that emotional rush and they confuse that with ‘being in love’, which is why they are always so quick to throw away what they have for something new. Something new almost always gives you ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 21 (By KevM3)

Something important that is often overlooked is how you should maintain your dignity and respect. Your real friends are way more important than these day to day broads you meet. WAY more. If you had a real friend and ya’ll are still cool to this day, you’ll know the importance of real friends. But on the other hand, where are ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 20 (By KevM3)

Messing with married women is never the business. From just a moral standpoint, you don’t want to cause another man all that pain, break up his household, etc., and the repercussions could easily result in your life. **** What makes everything so difficult as a man is that we place such a high emphasis on looks, but when it comes ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women PT. 19 (By KevM3)

Women are problems if you let them be. It comes down to careful decision making and who you let around you. If the only screen you have to let a woman into your castle (your life) is that she looks pretty, you are inviting all kinds of problems into your life. Looks are what ‘swag’ is to females. We get ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women PT. 18 (By KevM3)

Something interesting I’ve found is that women pretty much have decided if they like or dislike you before you even say a word to them, and your interaction with them will proceed from that. I’ve had a girl tell me that she misses me and it’s weird for her because she doesn’t even really know me. You could be average ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt.17 (By KevM3)

Let’s talk about something important. A lot of guys whole lives revolved around getting and attracting women.They want to make more money to get women, they change their personality to attract women, they buy cars to attract women, they spend all their money on clothes to do what? That’s right, attract women. But think about this deeply. Why are you spending so much time ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt.16 (By KevM3)

women constantly test men to see if the man is ‘on her level or below.’ Women always want to deal with a man she perceives as above her, so if you go around letting women make these little remarks, it might ‘keep the peace’ for the short term, but over the long-term she will either escalate the slick comments or ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt.15 (By KevM3)

This is something that will save you a ton of time. Trying to figure out women is like trying to figure out ‘abstract art’. You’re going to be making up all kinds of reasons trying to figure out the ‘deeper meaning’ behind the piece when the artist just threw paint everywhere on the canvas. In other words, you are not ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems On Dealing With Women Pt. 14 (By KevM3)

When dealing with women, always keep them in a proper context in your life. Never give up your autonomy, respect, religion or manhood to deal with these women. Friendship is something that you always have to maintain over women. Your potnas will be there with you much longer than the vast majority of women will be, so keep your integrity ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 13 (By KevM3)

You need to have an investor’s mentality when dealing with women or with most things in life. I’m not talking about whether or not you are profiting financially off of a woman, but you need to think whether you are getting a suitable return for the time and effort you are investing with her? Is the effort you are putting ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 12 (By KevM3)

The one thing to get out of your head is the need to ‘impress women’. How many men waste so much time and money trying to impress women and completely wreck their financial situation by doing so by buying super fancy clothes, cars they can’t really afford. Other guys end up spending on these lavish dinners. They’re doing all of ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems On Dealing With Women Pt. 11 (By KevM3)

Shout out to KevM3 & All The Coli Brehs ****** Me personally, I don’t hate women. I hate how a lot of women ACT in this day and age. A woman that is feminine and holds her man down, that’s a lovely thing. Who has a qualm against that? Not a soul. Now let me clarify about ‘indifference’. You should ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems On Dealing With Women Pt.10 (By KevM3)

More gospel from KevM3.  Shout out to him and the whole Coli Fam ********** Never be a sucker for your emotions. One aspect that a lot of cats get caught up in is that little warm feeling they get from interacting with a woman. That’s nice, but NEVER sacrifice your manhood for ANYTHING, especially a woman. There’s just too many ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems On Dealing With Women Pt. 9 (By KevM3)

Shout out to KevM3 & all my Coli Brehs ****** Never cheerlead a woman and never follow up behind her. Cats that cheerlead women end up looking crazy in the end. What I’m talking about is cats that sit around with their woman all over their facebook, talking about how much they love their baby, how amazing she is, if ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems On Dealing With Women Pt. 8 (By KevM3)

Big shout out to the boss player KevM3 & The Whole Coli Fam **** I’m going to break you cats off another bar of this realism. When you go about choosing women, you have to pick amongst the ones that CHOOSE YOU FIRST. In other words, she’s shown definite interest in you without you having to do anything to impress ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems On Dealing With Women Pt. 7 (By KevM3)

Shout out to KevM3 & The Whole Coli Movement. ***** The key to real success in dealing with women is mind control… The key is not in controlling HER mind, but it’s in controlling YOUR mind. You really have to keep your thoughts in check. Jesus said a man is what he thinks… and it’s true. You have to look ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems On Dealing With Women Pt. 6 (By KevM3)

SHOUT OUT TO KEVM3 & EVERYONE OVER AT THE COLI *** There are two keys to most women, especially in this day and age. They love attention and they are easily bored. Let’s also couple that with the knowledge that women find it hard to keep themselves entertained, so entertainment is another avenue that women are largely dependent on men ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems On Dealing With Women Pt. 5 (By KevM3)

What really makes it so difficult is that a lot of the women America is reaping are really not worth the time. People love to use those bitter, angry or fearful labels when you point out what’s really going on, but the reality is THEY are the ones who are bitter, angry and fearful that the beautiful fantasy they’ve concocted ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt.4 (By KevM3)

It is very possible for men and women to be friends, but to expect the same things from a female friend that you would a male friend is where people get caught up and get it wrong. She’s not your road dawg who you tell everything to. To merely see females as sexual beings is vastly limiting your human experience ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 3 (By KevM3)

In this day and age, you pretty much have to have a hard to get in, but easy to get out policy… sort of like a hotel at night. You can’t get in without a keycard, but you just have to push the doors to get out. It should be tougher for a woman to get in a relationship with ... Read More »

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 2 (By KevM3)

To be honest with yall, this whole game thing is getting boring to me. It’s fun getting dressed up sharp and having these women looking you up and down and it’s fun chatting with them and all of that, but in the back of my mind I just get this feeling that it’s pretty much a waste of time due ... Read More »

Gems from Gerard Adams

*Via sartoriano.com* Gerard Adams, co-founder of Elite Daily, which was acquired by the Daily Mail for $50 million in 2015, veered off the traditional route to success, left college early and became a self-made millionaire at the age of 24. Although he made it big, he wanted to fulfill this success and give it meaning. Gerard recently launched a non-profit ... Read More »

Quick Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 43 (By KevM3)

As a man, if you don’t have respect from a woman, you don’t have anything at all but a bunch of stress and headaches because a woman will definitely try to push the limits when you first meet her and see what she can get away with. If you don’t set any boundaries, she’s going to come in the door ... Read More »

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