You treat a dog well, you got a loyal bud for life. With women, you treat them too well and you upgrade a woman to a certain point, then she starts feeling she’s too fly for you and takes off. Women only want to stick around a man they feel is beyond them, so upgrading a girl too much brings her into a zone mentally where she believes you are not enough for her anymore.
Honestly, I get tired of worrying about the backwards attitude you need to present to ‘keep a woman around’. I’m pretty much of if you want to be here, cool… if you decide to up and leave, then that’s fine because I don’t want anyone here that doesn’t want to be here.
You just have to temper your emotions and realize that this fine woman isn’t any more special than any other woman. It comes with reflection and seeing if your actions align with your philosophy. If not, then you have to readjust your actions.
As you get older, you start to realize that although fine women are beautiful and all that, there’s a lot more to a woman than beauty. If she doesn’t know how to act right, then she serves very little purpose in your life. That realization will help you cut down on all the catering behavior.
As you get older and your emotions/hormones subside, you learn to enjoy the beauty of a woman without being captivated by it and hence making terrible decisions. Most of the playas in high school that had all the bad women married a woman that was nowhere near the prettiest they’ve dealt with. Once you get past the mystique of looks, having a woman who is ‘pretty enough’, but does everything she can to see you win and to be with you is way better than your run of the mill big booty, ‘hot’ instagram model.