A lot of women live up to the standard that the men uphold. A lot of men complain about a lack fo quality women, and yet when they praise women, the only kind of woman that shows up is some stripper in a thong or some such similar breed of woman. When women see this is the kind of woman that men praise and pay attention to in deeds, then that’s the kind of woman they start morphing into. If you want quality woman, you got to give them their props and pay attention to them over that loose, scandalous woman.
Enjoy a woman while she is with you, but really, you never know what she’s doing when she’s not in your presence and you don’t know if she will decide that she’s found some better offer and is off to the races. Therefore, it makes little sense worrying about such things and defining yourself in terms of what women are doing
As you get older, over and over you see the same patterns with women. I’m telling you now, enjoy them while they are in your presence, but do NOT build your world around women and always be prepared to move on if one decides to leave. You see a lot of these PUA type guys focus their lives on women, and while they end up sleeping with a lot of them, they have NOTHING to show for it, because most of a woman’s benefits evaporate as soon as she leaves. In this day and age, who knows how long a woman will stick around? Everything may seem super cool for weeks, months, if not longer, and then all of a sudden she disappears. The man who built his life around women or that particular woman is in a world of trouble. The man who has prepared himself simply moves on to enjoy other things in life
Most of these girls have a ton of options and they’re juggling them and that’s why you’re getting all these flakes and sometimesish behavior. The less I focus on women, the better, because really, there’s not much value that it is being brought to the table. You sit there getting all hyped about this new woman, you do all the fancy tricks, use your smooth voice, get super dressed up, yada yada, and then she disappears after a couple of weeks because she wanted to try out some other guy she met on one of her 10,000 social networks. Then she gets bored and pops back up on some, “Heyyy I was super busy, how you been?”
Most of you know this is what’s really going on, but we have this fantasy of finding that special gem so we go through the merry go round over and over. Honestly, I think it’s better to focus on stacking your money and exploring the world and hopefully finding someone who isn’t corrupted by the western ideology.