Never, ever abandon your friends once you get a woman. As soon as she ends up leaving, you’ll be stuck on your lonesome.
Time heals wounds. Right now, it’s tough to bear because something that you’ve been accustomed to has been removed from you. It’s like if you drink coffee every day for 10 years, and then all of a sudden there’s no coffee machine and no way for you to get coffee, you’re going to get very jittery for a couple of reasons. For one, you’ve grown so accustomed to that coffee that it has essentially been ingrained in you, and two, coffee has addictive ingredients in it.
Now that applies to women because if we’ve been with a woman for a long time and all of a sudden she is removed, we get a very intense longing for her. It will take time for our body and mind to readjust to a state of her not being there, but eventually our body and mind will find a state of sanity if we allow time to pass. We may still have desires for her, but it won’t be that super intense craving like when you first broke up.
Ultimately though, if a woman really desires you and wants you, she’ll find her way back around. It just comes down to dealing with that feeling when you first break up… and time will soothe those wounds eventually.
Don’t overly expose your feelings to her. Doing so will make her think you’re weak and will push her further from you. At the end of the day, you simply have to come to the point of letting her know it is what it is. You’d like to be with her, but if she can’t really accept it, you’ll do what it takes to move on. Leaving with dignity is really the best course of action.
Now is definitely the time for reflection and to step back and allow God to bring order in your life. Try to find stability without women and in just learning to enjoy your own company. If it was meant to be between you and her, it’ll come to pass.
Honestly, I say it’s a blessing. Sometimes we get tethered to some destination and in order to see growth, we have to be ejected from that particular place.