Man honestly, I don’t know why guys are spending all this time trying to figure out these little hints, signs, tips, strategies, techniques and tactics, as if this or that woman has some magnificent prize to offer you for all the effort. What does she have to offer really? That box that 20 to 30 other guys have already been in? Stop racking your brain and trying to figure out the magical keywords that she will like or some such nonsense. Either she likes your conversation or presence or she doesn’t. If she doesn’t, no big loss. Another woman will. That simple. There’s no reason to sit around here stressing over the perfect way to come at a woman. What are any of these women offering for you to rack your brain for all of that? Stop tip-toeing around these broads and acting like they got the juice to corral your thoughts.
Just about everything with a woman is contingent on how much she likes you. If she doesn’t like you, then just a stare is ‘creepy’. If she really digs you, then just about anything you say will have her busting out laughing, talking about, “boy you crazy.”
It’s amazing how women have clouds of delusional positive affirmations surrounding them. They are ‘awesome’ no matter what. They even have a movement where we need to stop ‘fat-shaming’. In other words, women don’t have to bring ANYTHING to the table and we’re supposed to give them praise. The stuff is getting so nonsensical, it is mind-boggling.
Women are creatures of emotion and if she sees you and knows nothing about you, but gets some special feeling when she’s around you, she’ll go hard for you. As soon as you start blabbing too much and becoming that regular guy by exposing everything you like to do, then her attitude can shift because you are removing that special ‘feeling’ from her.
What’s so crazy about it is that although women will use ‘provider-types’, they actually end up resenting them. They’ll say, “Thanks for the free resources, but I can’t wait to get with a man that actually makes me ‘feel’ something. I’ve actually found the less you do for a female, the more they like you in general, which is completely contrary to what the average man was brought up to believe. The average man was brought up to believe that if he was responsible, provided for all the needs of the household, etc., that he would be rewarded with a faithful woman that loved him. The reality he received was he would get a woman who pilfered his resources right from under him as she snuck off with the bad-boy or player that knew how to hit her emotional buttons.I am continually reminded of the point that it’s not what you DO for a woman, but how you make her feel every single day. The moment a woman feels she has you on lock and has easy access to your resources, you are a disposable entity to be used at a whim and tossed away. This is why you should NEVER compensate for a woman’s lack of liking you by trying to offer up dinners, taking her on trips, or buying her stuff. She may pay you attention after doing such suckerish moves, but it’s the WRONG kind of attention. It’s the kind of attention that will have you thrown in providerman category, which ultimately means that you will be used up for your resources while she is dealing with another man she is actually feeling on the side. You have to be disciplined as a man to know that although you might like how this particular woman looks or you may even like her personality, if she doesn’t like YOU enough, then simply don’t deal with her because that’s a losing proposition. Women simply do not try to charge men they really like because they are afraid of losing them. The men women demand dinners and all sorts of things for are the men who they look at as willing to ‘settle for’, aka use as a provider of easy living, and many of them will still be on the hunt for the guy who really gets her emotions going.
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