What’s crazy is that you never know who will and won’t like you. It’ll be that 5 that thinks you’re nothing special, but it’s that dime that thinks you’re fine. Even with that said, it’s not all about looks with women. Looks make things easier, but it’s all about your charisma and personality traits. You got to work on yourself internally and learn to like yourself. When you feel great about yourself in a non-arrogant manner, women are able to sense that.
The rule I’m finding is if women don’t like you for WHO you are, then you will lose, because they will like you for what you can DO for them. The same girl you have to take out to dinner or make promises to get some of her time is eager to rush out and deal with another man without him having to run elaborate routines or drop a time. If you are dealing with a woman and you’re on that ‘provider’ side of the coin, you better snap out of it and keep it pushing. If she’s not willing to deal with you just to be with your company, keep it pushing.
The bottom line is you just have to stay within the zone of women that like you. When you step outside of that zone and you like the woman too much, that’s when you start all that sucker behavior. If a woman really likes you, it’s not about ‘where’ you take her. She just wants to spend time with YOU. She’ll be wherever you choose to go. It’s when you start liking this woman too much and she doesn’t really feel you all that much but you get it in your mind that you HAVE to have her is when you will get taken for a sucker. The last thing you want to have is to be put into Mr. Meals on Wheels or Money Man category where she associates you as the guy to hit up when she’s hungry or needs some shoes for the mall. If a woman is trying to charge you for her time, she gotta go.
I’m glad there are more people starting to get it right… Instead of moping around over some women and trying to figure out how to become the woman’s circus monkey, they are going out and enjoying life and broadening their horizons, and with that, they are noticing that women are paying more attention to them while they are paying less attention to the woman. A man is getting where he needs to be mentally when he allows no disrespect or drama from women, doesn’t let her call the shots and doesn’t compromise. Enjoy your life and let whatever woman find a way to fit within that. YOU are the captain who chose the destination. You don’t let a crew member tell you where to go or how to run the ship. Stop worrying about what lines you need to use, what secret cologne or shoes you need to wear, etc. Worry about how you’re going to get your ship right in all aspects and how you’re going to enjoy life