Women are problems if you let them be. It comes down to careful decision making and who you let around you. If the only screen you have to let a woman into your castle (your life) is that she looks pretty, you are inviting all kinds of problems into your life. Looks are what ‘swag’ is to females. We get on women all the time for getting taken advantage of by dudes who only bring ‘swag’ to the table, but a lot of men get taken because the only criteria they have is that she looks pretty. Also, the respect you get is the respect you demand. If you let women slick talk you and put you on the back burner, that’s exactly the position you will be in when dealing with them. It’s better to be alone than to be in the presence of disrespectful females.
So I can respect when a man cuts a woman off when she pulls these magic disappearing acts. more times than not when a woman disappeared out of nowhere for a week or more, she’s dealing with another guy. Here, we’re not fallback guys to be hit up when a woman is bored and isn’t getting attention from some other guy.
The MAIN problem in this day and age is guys think they are some kind of players by rushing to dive into and doing anything for a whiff of some sex. They are vagina vultures hovering overhead, accepting all kinds of nasty and bad behavior from women just as long as it gives them a chance at sex. Men should make their time way more exclusive and demand RESPECT as opposed to that mindset where they rush in and accept any kind of behavior hoping for a morsel of her time. Only way as a man to get respect from these women is to stand on it. You can’t be prompt, then I’m moving on.