women constantly test men to see if the man is ‘on her level or below.’ Women always want to deal with a man she perceives as above her, so if you go around letting women make these little remarks, it might ‘keep the peace’ for the short term, but over the long-term she will either escalate the slick comments or she will peel off because she feels ‘you don’t have a backbone’. But more than anything, the important reason to check that behavior is just because you don’t want that entering into your midst. Having peace of mind is way more important than keeping a woman lingering around.
What I feel Malik’s girl was doing was floating one of those little tests and seeing if she could manipulate him by creating a ‘fantasy man’ whose behavior she will constantly judge him against. Aka it was her way of creating the ‘perfect man’ that she would eventually hate. It’s little different than her saying, “Well my homegirl’s man, he always buys her flowers. Why don’t you buy me flowers?” It’s a little slicker way of pulling something off like that and if you don’t shut it down early, she will keep on with it.
A BIG mistake I see men making these days is ‘giving in’ and making moves to keep the coochie exclusive. You don’t make moves to ‘please’ the woman and to keep the coochie exclusive. You make moves to maintain respect and control. If a woman wants to give that thang away, that’s what she’s going to do. Tip-toeing and trying to come up with the perfect action so she will have this perfect reaction will do nothing but cause you to neuter yourself, which will make her even more likely to cheat. If a woman wants to deal with another man, she’s going to do that, so never, ever let her try to use the perception of the exclusivity of her vagina as a means of manipulating you. The less men stopped wondering ‘what a woman is thinking’, the better. You will never be able to figure out what is going on in her mind because women are wired differently than men, so they think differently. I can’t control her actions, but I can control mine and who I allow in my atmosphere. Don’t allow anyone to bring funny-style behavior onto your planet. Send them back into orbit.