To be honest with yall, this whole game thing is getting boring to me. It’s fun getting dressed up sharp and having these women looking you up and down and it’s fun chatting with them and all of that, but in the back of my mind I just get this feeling that it’s pretty much a waste of time due to the utter lack of loyalty in this day and age. While it may be fun for a little while, you just come to a realization of ‘what it is’.
The majority of women are extremely self-centered and their moves revolve around putting themselves in the best position possible. When you realize what their game is– ie they reserve the right to talk to other dudes, cheat on you, flake on you randomly and pull the lowest common denominator in behavior until they find a guy to wrap up that they feel is ‘out of their league.’ And even then, that guy always has to give her the impression that he’s willing to walk at a moment’s notice just to keep her on her toes.
Now, what really happens when dealing with these women is that they will always be talking to you and several other dudes, but always telling the other dudes that the other guys are ‘just friends’ or ‘nothing serious’ if they bother mentioning them at all. Women stay juggling all of these men and when they find themselves getting closer to one, they disappear on the other ones for a while, and when the relationship goes sour, they pop back up and hit the men they disappeared on back up… aka they fall back on them. No regards for the feelings of others. Just whatever puts her in the best situation in the immediate moment.
I just find these modern women extremely rude and lacking for manners. They want to do whatever they want to do and deal with all the men they want to deal with and not even give men an iota of courtesy. Instead of even making an attempt to be loyal, they will build their little roster. Instead of telling you they aren’t trying to mess with you, they will flat up ignore your texts and calls even if they seemed perfectly cool the previous day. A man would be called screwed up if he was talking to 5 women at once, being mad friendly with them and all and just all of a sudden cut off 4 of the women that were feeling him without any sort of known reason.
This unpredictability is why I’m feeling the way I am. You get the feeling that these women are for ‘fun’, but nothing to ever build with. This is pushing me to start focusing even more on other hobbies and interests. It’s hard to take a woman seriously when you never really know what she will do next. It can be sweet as sugar today and tomorrow she is gone with the dude you never knew she was dealing with.
The moral make-up out here is disgusting… and then these women want to feel pity for themselves for turning into ‘cat lady’. Nah, the way you treated others came back to you and knocked you on your head and nobody wants to deal with you now.
One of the top rules in this day and age that you need to understand is that you do not own the vagina and never will. You can be in a relationship with her, you can be doing this, you can be doing that. If she feels like giving it up to someone else, she will, no matter what you do. When you start believing your own actions determine what she does with what’s between her legs is when you become a vagina slave, and you start tailoring your actions to ‘keep it exclusive,’ which won’t work, because as we said before, she will give it to who she wants when she wants. When you turn into a vagina slave, you start abiding by corny sayings like, “If I don’t do this, another man will,” and you will allow yourself to be degraded and suckered. You cannot keep her legs closed for her, so stop making choices that revolve around impressing her in hopes to win loyalty. It won’t happen. Another thing is you pretty much have to prepare yourself for her to walk at any time without getting too emotionally affected. Doesn’t matter what she has told you, how long ya’ll have been in a relationship, etc. This is why it is always important to have a ton of interests outside of women and never to get too emotionally involved.