I want everyone to be great, EVERYONE! But especially my beautiful black women. It’s hard for ya’ll right now, I know. Which means you have to stop making it harder for yourselves.

I know a lot of men you’ve dated in the past were liars, cheaters, clowns, or just overall lame niggas period. That doesn’t mean you should give up hope. Everytime I go to my instagram feed I can’t help but think that most of you have given up altogether. When I see lonely pictures of bagels with cream cheese or that same ol’ pic of you in the mirror telling and showing everyone what you’re wearing to work today, taking mad pics of your kids, posting the lonely tweegrams (oh my bad versagrams now!) seems to me you’re just begging for attention. I want you all to be great. Just channel all that loneliness, all that sadness, all that aggression towards something that will help you to be great.

Work on yourself. Be sociable in a different type of way. When you take that pic, put it on instagram then click that share button and send it to twitter …. your stock goes down. Lame n!ggas don’t mind because, they’re lame. Real n!ggas don’t like that nonsense and we will never take you serious until you start taking yourself serious. Ditch the late night meal pics, 1,000 face pics, alcohol, tweegrams, versagrams, and whatever else fits into the lonely category and work on being great. Back in the day women didn’t have an outlet to express how lonely they were. They had to really be creative about it. Men really wanted to see for ourself how lonely a chick was …it was a mystery. Now women all over the world ban together to support each others lonely habits by posting bullshit. “Likes” and “RT’s” aren’t helping you from being lonely. They’re actually encouraging it. Don’t go through life being lonely because you think it’s cool. Stay strong, pray, and stop being so consumed with other peoples thoughts and actions and just do what works for you